Danielle’s six halves in six weeks in Toby’s memory

Six half marathons in six weeks

A half marathon is a major challenge for the majority of us, however one of our supporters has decided to take on six in six weeks all in memory of her cousin Toby.

Danielle Parkes (or Danni as she is known to many) will be running six different half marathons over six weeks all in memory of her 23-year-old cousin Toby Brann, who died a year ago. In his final weeks Toby was cared for by our St Luke’s at home team, giving him the opportunity to make lasting memories with his loved ones, including granting his wish of watching his home team Plymouth Argyle play at home against Ipswich.

Danni, who was born in Plymouth, but currently lives in Lincoln, is currently completing her Doctorate in Clinical Psychology and is training to become a Clinical Psychologist. She decided on the challenge as a way of raising money for St Luke’s, while also remembering Toby and the special person he was.

She said: “Initially, I was going to do a marathon one year after he passed, but then I realised that was going to be difficult to train for alongside my studies, so my plans escalated and I got ahead of myself, and before I knew it, I had signed up to six half marathons six weekends in a row, ending in Plymouth.”

Danni will be kicking things off with the Sherwood Pines half marathon in Nottingham on 6 April, then the Boston half marathon in Lincolnshire on 13 April, Carsington water half marathon on 19 April, Blackpool half marathon on 27 April, Saltash half marathon on 4 May and then finally Plymouth on 11 May.

“It will have been a year since Toby passing away, and I aim to finish up in Plymouth with the support of family and everyone who knew and loved Toby,” she added.

In Toby’s memory

“Toby was 23 when he died, definitely a life stolen too early. He was an absolute ray of sunshine. He loved spending time with family, including his sister, Robyn, and younger brother, Gabriel. Christmas was always a special time for Toby, he loved everything about it. On Christmas day, the Brann’s would spend the day together and then head to our house in the evening for our annual party, where we would drink too much and dance the night away. Myself and Toby had a tradition where we would rap ‘Lose Yourself’ by Eminem, and he was always so much better than me. I will be running with the hashtag #loseyourselfinthemoment as it is also a great motivator for myself (and I will need to listen to it on repeat to get me up the hill at the end of the Plymouth half!).

“Ultimately though, Toby was loved by everyone he met. He was in the Royal Navy, following in the footsteps of his dad, he loved football and rugby, and he loved doing an Elvis impression.”

Toby’s Dad and Danni’s uncle Rob Brann, who will be joining her on her final run, said: “Toby was a caring, loving, family minded son, brother, cousin, nephew and grandson, and friend.

“When he got the news of his terminal illness (Stage 4 cancer), he faced it head on, determined to make the most of the time he had left and equally determined to protect the people close to him.

“He did his ‘bucket list tour’ – watching Liverpool at Anfield, including England rugby at Twickenham, and visiting Harry Potter World. An ardent Argyle supporter, proudly singing the Janner anthem, he followed them until the end, with St Luke’s helping him do so.

“St Luke’s support was invaluable in helping Toby and our family cope with the reality of his terminal illness, they helped facilitate those impossible discussions that the family couldn’t bear to have. Their support enabled Toby to remain at home, his ultimate dying wish. They managed his pain relief and were a tower of strength and comfort. This allowed precious and treasured time to come to terms with the inevitable, to cherish time together and to have special moments and build memories that will last forever.”

Seeing the support Toby and the family received, encouraged Danni to want to play her part in honouring his memory while raising funds so that others like Toby can receive the same care and support.

She said: “I was able to see firsthand how much St Luke’s supported my family. When I visited the hospice myself, I saw how much brightness the staff brought, and I have only heard positive things about the care they provide. I had not realised how much of a huge patch St Luke’s covers, and it is commendable the work that the staff do.”

Good luck Danni

With just a few weeks to go until the running kicks off, Danni is deep into her training.

“I am in the final stretch to my first half on the 6 April and the long runs are starting. I am running four times a week, and in the gym two times a week. I am probably averaging anywhere between 30-40km a week! I just bought some new trainers, and I may need to buy another pair beforehand with all of the kms! Six weekends in a row, completing half marathons, and all of the travelling and logistics behind it, is a task. It is daunting, but I am feeling ready for it. I have incredible support. My dad is running the first one with me, my partner, Jack, is running every other one, and my uncle is joining me for the final one, and I have friends and family supporting at various races when they can.”

You can follow Danni’s fundraising journey here and keep an eye out for her in Plymouth on Sunday 6 April and show your support. Good luck Danni!

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