Giving something back
Will Wills was taking part in Men’s Day Out for the first time, in memory of his father, Chris, who was cared for at St Luke’s specialist unit at Turnchapel and died in November last year.
He said: “St Luke’s are like everybody’s grandma. You can talk to them about things you would never dream of even thinking about. You can ask the stupidest questions, and they tell you there is no such thing as a stupid question.
“Today is about giving something back. Everyone here today has a personal reason for being here. We’re having a good time but scratch the surface and everyone has a story to tell and when you talk to someone else who understands it helps you feel better.”
As he walked with friends, Lee Willson was thinking about his dad, Lester.
“Dad has been having some issues with cancer so that makes it resonate more and writing a message on your T-shirt means you are walking for a reason,” said Lee, who is in the Navy.
“As men we are really poor at opening up and talking about our feelings and issues. Here it’s a relaxed atmosphere, everyone talks to each other as we’re walking and we’re all here because we want to do good.”
Among some of the younger participants was Will Drake, 19, walking in memory of his nan who was cared for by St Luke’s about 15 years ago. Last year he came along with his dad and enjoyed the day so much that this year he invited his childhood pals Finley Davis, Tom Ellis and Jack Llewellyn to take part.
“It’s nice to carry on the family tradition of taking part and to help keep the hospice going for future generations.”